I know where I stand.

In everyone's mind... There are lists of people.

There's a list for the people they talk to.

A list for the people they approach for help.

One for the people they don't like.

And one more for the people they like.

There are too many people on my lists. For the large majority of them, I'm not on any one, or maybe on the third list of theirs.

It's not too hard to tell actually. I can tell for the first two because... Well. Nobody talks to me or approaches me for help.

And the other two... Call it instinct if you have to.